Negotiation Strategy Orderings
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Overview
In negotiations and strategic interactions, the order of moves determines outcomes. What you reveal first, what you ask for first, and when you make concessions all affect the other party’s behavior. Game-theoretic orderings for sequential decisions.
Ordering Rules
Rule 1: Anchor First
- Make the first offer to set the reference point
- Subsequent discussion revolves around adjustments to the anchor
- When: you have better information than the counterparty
Rule 2: Listen Before Proposing
- Understand what the other party wants before revealing what you want
- Information asymmetry is leverage
- When: you have less information, or the other party’s priorities are unclear
Rule 3: Easy Agreements First
- Start with points of agreement to build rapport and momentum
- Progress to contentious issues after trust is established
- When: complex multi-issue negotiations, relationship matters
Rule 4: Linkage — Package Before Itemize
- Present issues as a package rather than negotiating item by item
- Enables trades across issues (I give on X, you give on Y)
- When: multi-issue negotiations, creating win-win
Rule 5: Irreversible Concessions Last
- Make reversible concessions first (temporary, conditional)
- Save irreversible concessions for the end, when you know what you’re getting
- When: high-stakes negotiations, trust is uncertain
Application Procedure
Step 1: Assess the Situation
- What are your priorities? (rank issues)
- What are their likely priorities?
- What is your BATNA (best alternative)?
- Is this a one-time or repeated interaction?
Step 2: Choose Strategy
- Strong position + good info → Anchor First
- Weak position or uncertain → Listen Before Proposing
- Complex multi-issue → Easy Agreements First + Linkage
- High stakes → Irreversible Last
Step 3: Execute and Adapt
- Follow the ordering but adapt based on counterparty responses
- Reciprocate cooperation, don’t reward bad faith
When to Use
- Business negotiations, contract discussions
- Salary negotiations, partnership terms
- Any interaction where order of moves matters
Verification
- Priorities ranked before engaging
- BATNA known
- Ordering chosen based on information and power dynamics
- Irreversible commitments protected until late